Hi 2026, Bye 2025!

What a year 2025 turned out to be. I often looked into the mirror, and at times, my reflection appeared blurry, clear, or a combination of both. Yet, I accepted every version of myself, felt deeply, and chose not to run.

Happy New Year to you. I'm glad you're reading my recap.

The year 2025 was a mix of emotions; I cherished every moment, confronted business rejections directly, started a new job, enjoyed wonderful times with my loved ones, published my debut art book, experienced heartbreak, indulged in plenty of ice cream, faced challenges in my faith, gave many pecks and hugs, and so much more!

Personal

With each passing year, I strive to understand myself more deeply, and this past year, I confronted the difficult reality that my emotional regulation needed improvement. I encountered several fight-or-flight scenarios. In response, I chose to fully experience and healthily confront my emotions. I had numerous unexpected crying episodes, often in the most amusing places in hindsight, though it wasn't funny at the time. Also, this is the most honest I've been in my relationship with God, and I hope to develop a much better relationship. There's nothing like "arrival" in faith.

Ultimately, I embraced myself, and I am very proud of this achievement.

Career

Over the past year, I obtained certifications and began a new job within the same industry, focusing on a different mission that is dear to my heart. This opportunity has allowed me to expand my knowledge. Looking forward to the various learning opportunities.

Relationships

I recently had a conversation with someone about how my family members truly see me, flaws and all. They understand my words and grasp what I'm saying, making me feel seen, loved, and cherished. We've all made an unspoken commitment to genuinely and fully love each other. Such a beautiful acceptance. As the eldest daughter, I've always felt the urge to be involved in everything, but this year I found balance in my involvement. I've never felt this relieved in my life. It was truly wonderful. Friendships hold great significance for me, and over the past year, I did my utmost to be present as much as I was able. I spent meaningful time with my chosen family, both in person and virtually. Additionally, I developed deeper connections with newer friends.

My 5-9:

In my 2023 recap, I mentioned my goal of curating exhibitions in 2024, and I managed to do so in both 2024 and 2025, all while juggling my 9-5 job. Art curation has pushed me out of my comfort zone, and what an incredible journey it has been — I'm just getting started!

I found it challenging to write here, and honestly, last year flew by. However, I did manage to write a few blog posts, and I hope you enjoyed them! I picked up crocheting again, made a few pieces, and realized I have a knack for collecting hobbies! The gym — how often did I visit? Well, I did go. Although I lost some strength, I still showed up, even if just for the sauna. I'm aiming for a much better gym year!

Music:

The year of concerts. I attended a few concerts and had a great time. I was introduced to new music, including Murumba Pitch, HILLARI, Olivia Dean, OBED, and many others. The photo in the blog's introduction was taken at a live jam session. Music plays a significant role in my life, and I'm proud of every artist producing great music. I often wonder about the incredible music I have yet to discover.

There is much to be thankful for this past year, and I am very grateful to God for keeping me, and my loved ones for loving me. I wish you all a wonderful 2026!

Love,

Fayosola.