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Risks are present everywhere, and only by acknowledging this can we genuinely create safety within, rather than labelling a space as "safe".

What a year 2025 turned out to be. I often looked into the mirror, and at times, my reflection appeared blurry, clear, or a combination of both. Yet, I accepted every version of myself, felt deeply, and chose not to run.

This line captures the essence of what I want to explore: the romantic feeling of urgency that both partners should have towards each other. I've experienced this urgency, but it often fades quickly when there are no solid roots, leading me to believe that while urgency is important, it must be complemented by stability.

September proved to be a month rich in diverse media experiences that not only entertained but also provided depth and insight. As I continue to explore and engage with various media, I look forward to sharing more of my insights and recommendations. Whether it's through music, literature, or visual storytelling, there's always something new to discover and appreciate.

Summer 25 was packed with quality time, ice cream, music, food, and spontaneous outings — some without photos but many captured, leaving my heart full of memories.

What trap did I fall into, exactly? I found myself caught in the trap of seeking external validation. I wasn't aware I was in this trap until I began to analyse certain emotions I started experiencing.

Please free me from your shackles; the evil you've done is enough! I'm gradually coming to terms with the fact that I tend to go through an annual reading slump. This year, I've managed to finish only three books, and I'm not particularly happy about that. To give some background, I started reading consistently in 2022 when a friend suggested "Dear Ijeawele" by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. Before this, I found reading challenging and assumed it wasn't for me, but eventually real